10 things to remember if your child is starting school
Your little one is about to embark on an amazing adventure - starting school! ๐ Undoubtedly, it's an emotional rollercoaster for both of you, but don't fret! ๐ We've got you covered with ten proven tips to make this transition smooth as butter! ๐
1. Encourage open communication ๐ฃ๏ธ
Kick off heartfelt and genuine chats with your little one. Encourage them to spill the beans about their feelings, worries and all the bubbling excitement about school. This wonderful heart-to-heart lays the foundation for trust and ensures they sense your support throughout this adventure.
2. Visit the school together ๐ซ
Pop over to the school for a visit before the term kicks off. Getting your little one familiar with the school surroundings works like a charm to soothe those first-day jitters. Many schools arrange open days and settling sessions โ a fantastic chance for your child to meet the teachers, mingle with fellow kids and even say hi to other parents. And don't forget to pick up that school leaflet! Bringing it home means you and your little explorer can flip through it together. Keep it somewhere handy so your little one can have a peek whenever they fancy.
3. Nurture sense of independence ๐
Encourage your little one to spread their wings in their everyday routine โ think dressing themselves, handling bathroom trips, tidying up after playtime and mastering tissues and cutlery. These newfound skills will work wonders, boosting their confidence as they step into the school scene.
4. Set the stage for a steady routine ๐
Create a daily schedule that includes set times for waking up, meals, playtime and sleep. By keeping things consistent, you're gifting your child a sense of stability that will help them glide into school life with ease. Team up to design a handy routine chart, a dรฉcor piece for your child's room that lets them know just what's in store for the day.
5. Read books about starting school ๐
Bring in age-appropriate books that unfold the world of starting school. Reading together about characters that navigate similar feelings can help your little one connect and grasp what lies ahead. We've got a couple of gems for you: "Rubyโs Worry: A Big Bright Feelings Book" and "The Colour Monster Goes to School".
6. Radiate positivity and excitement ๐
Believe it or not, your vibes and feelings can shape how your child views the school journey. Keep that energy upbeat and enthusiastic, highlighting the exciting blend of fun, friendships, and learning that's waiting for them. Remember, steer clear of negative school tales โ no need to mention if you weren't a fan back in the day! If you've got an older one in school, they can spill the beans on all the awesome activities they dive into during lessons and playtimes.
7. Brace for separation anxiety ๐ข
It's totally natural for kids to feel a bit wary about being apart. Prepare for this by discussing how you'll say goodbye and reassuring them that you'll be back to pick them up. A sweet goodbye routine can bring a comforting touch. There are heaps of books about tackling separation anxiety out there. "The Invisible String" really hit the spot for us.
8. Arrange playdates ๐
If possible, arrange playdates with other children who will also be starting school. Familiar faces on the first day can ease nerves and make your child feel safer.
9. Label their belongings ๐ท๏ธ
Kids have a knack for losing things at school, so be prepared! Pop labels on their school gear, backpacks and outfits to make sure everything finds its way back home.
10. Practice polite phrases.
Sometimes, our little ones might find it a tad tricky to jump into play or share with their pals. Practise useful phrases like "Would you like to play with me?", "Can I have a turn?", "Can I join in?". It's like their secret key to making friends and having a blast!
Embarking on the school journey is a big deal in your little one's world, and being their guiding star is so important. With a mix of encouragement, preparation and positivity, you can help your child embrace this new chapter with confidence and enthusiasm. Remember that every child is unique and each one will adjust to the school world in their own special rhythm. Patience and empathy are your superpowers here โ so go ahead and revel in the excitement of learning as your young explorer steps into this epic adventure of a lifetime! ๐๐๐
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